If you’re a man who’s struggling against premature ejaculation, and it seems to be completely uncontrollable, then I have some fantastic news for you. I have the exciting and fulfilling job of helping men overcome sexual and relationship problems.
Over the years, that’s given me the chance to really understand how men can get over premature ejaculation. It’s also given me the opportunity to ask my male clients to try out various cures for premature ejaculation, so I know exactly what works.
The One That Works!
Why’s it so good? Apart from the fact that it works? Well, first things first.
All of the techniques in this program are the ones that sex therapists use to cure premature ejaculation in their clients.
So Ejaculation By Command is based on really solid principles, with techniques and treatment methods used by professionals. (More about this later.)
And it’s written in a practical and down-to-earth style, by a man I know personally, who has made it his mission to help men with their ejaculatory problems.
Before I describe what’s in it, have a look at this video. Written and produced by a woman, it’s an amusing summary of some pointers about how you might cure premature ejaculation. But you need more. Read on when you’ve seen the video. Don’t be diverted!
So let’s look at what’s in Ejaculation by Command, and why it works so well.
There are two great things about this program:
First, you get 15 “Emergency Tactics” to help you last longer in bed tonight.
You also get a comprehensive eBook on controlling ejaculation quickly and permanently.
The Good News continues! There are also lots of bonuses, including info and videos on female orgasm secrets, female G spot stimulation, how to have the best sex possible…. and many more. They are great bonuses, and they’ll really help you have great sex. But what I want to talk about here is the basic eBook which shows you everything you ever wanted to know about ejaculation control.
It’s a pretty chunky eBook too, running into 135 pages. Fortunately you get a quick start guide which makes it all very easy. What’s great is that Ejaculation By Command isn’t just about giving you the ability to last longer in bed — it’s also about ways in which you can give your partner complete satisfaction (which means, of course, giving her an orgasm when you’re in bed with her).
So how is all this done?
The author, Lloyd Lester, takes several techniques, and blends them into a single approach to curing premature ejaculation.
His solution shows you how to use the muscles in your pelvic area, including your PC muscle, your pubococcygeus muscle, to slow down your arousal.
He describes how to use breathing techniques to massively slow down your ejaculation by spreading your sexual energy around your whole body. (So you may well experience a whole body orgasm!)
More importantly he shows you five fantastic techniques that will change your mental attitude to sex, so you’re completely confident about your ability to control ejaculation.
Which means you’ll have a true sense of your own masculinity and male power in bed.
Because, when you think about it, one of the biggest problems for men with premature ejaculation – and this might include you – is that they don’t believe they have the power to control their ejaculation. They don’t believe they’re good lovers. They don’t believe they’re sexually impressive to women.
The real truth is, everything you have to make you a great lover is within you now. Simply by changing your mental attitude and your beliefs about yourself, you can embody a very different reality, both in and out of bed.
This information is dynamite! It can blow your lack of confidence out of the water and replace it with supreme self-confidence and total self-assurance with women, both in bed and out of it.
In fact, it’s hard for me to really explain this revolutionary approach to curing premature ejaculation in a brief review like this. (If you want a full review, here it is.) So please take it from me that changing your mental attitude is half the battle — no, it’s a lot more than half the battle. It’s everything.
What you believe about your sexual performance becomes your sexual performance.
When you believe you have the power to be a great lover and control ejaculation, you’ll never apologize again for coming too soon. Because never again will you come too soon!
This eBook reveals secrets about male arousal that you’ve never even heard about before now. It reveals secrets of how to control your arousal. It shows you in great detail the breathing techniques, the muscle control techniques, the thrusting techniques, the relaxation techniques, and the mental techniques that will allow you to stay well below the point of no return as you thrust into your partner and bring her to orgasm.
Laci Green on Premature Ejaculation
Other Ways Of Preventing Rapid Ejaculation (That Don’t Work)
Delay Creams and Lotions
To start with, I can tell you that very few men like using delay creams or lotions, or condoms containing anesthetic to numb the penis. Men always tell me that these so-called premature ejaculation cures produce a burning or stinging sensation in the penis.
They also say that anesthetics remove all feeling so there’s no pleasure in sex, or your cock is so numb you just lose your erection.
And some men have told me these lotions and potions simply don’t work: you still ejaculate prematurely and just as quick as ever, but you don’t feel anything.
Diagnosis: avoid at all costs.
Thinking About Taxes Or Roadkill
You’d think this would work, wouldn’t you? And yet the truth is, trying to distract yourself from what’s going on during sex is completely ineffective as a means of overcoming premature ejaculation. You see, the thing is this: to be fully present in sex you need to have your mind on what you’re doing.
To enjoy sex as much as possible, you need to have your mind on what you’re doing. For your partner to feel that you’re really with her, enjoying love-making, you need to have your mind on what you’re doing.
And above all, to be aware of how near ejaculation you are, you need to have your mind on what you’re doing.
When you take your mind off the subject, so to speak, and start thinking about taxes and roadkill, several things can happen. First, you might lose your erection, which I guess is actually a pretty good cure for premature ejaculation. (Irony, my friend.)
Second, as soon as you lose awareness of how aroused you are, you lose the ability to control when you come. And third, sex just isn’t a great experience for you or your partner.
Diagnosis: don’t even go there.
Pills and Potions Bought on the Internet
Oh please, don’t tell me you think you can buy some mysterious potion off the Internet and hope that it actually helps you to overcome your tendency to ejaculate prematurely? Weren’t all those years of penis enlargement scams enough to reveal just how dishonest the snake oil salesmen can be? The truth is, there aren’t any herbs, there aren’t any pills, and there aren’t any mysterious Far Eastern remedies on the Internet that will cure your premature ejaculation. Furthermore, if you mysteriously do decide to buy these things, and later realize they were a complete scam and try to get your money back… well, good luck.
Diagnosis: Waste of time and money.
Squeezing Your PC Muscles To Stop Yourself Ejaculating
It’s a common suggestion on the Internet: just squeeze those muscles, the ones you use to stop yourself peeing, just before you ejaculate, and bingo! No more coming too soon for you!Unfortunately it’s complete garbage.
As I’ve said many times here, there and everywhere, you cannot stop yourself ejaculating by squeezing your PC muscles when you start to come. All that happens is you carry on ejaculating anyway, and the feelings of orgasm are ruined (in fact, you won’t have any sense of pleasure at all, and your juices will dribble out weakly.).
Where this myth came from I don’t know, but if I have the time one day I’ll research it and let you know.
In the meantime, take it from me that the only way to use the PC muscle to control a rapid ejaculation is to squeeze it briefly during foreplay or lovemaking at regular intervals.
This will have the effect of softening your erection and reducing your arousal, thereby allowing you to make sex last longer. As it happens, the treatment program that I’m recommending on this page has lots more information about this technique.
Diagnosis: Buy the program shown in the top right hand column of this page and get the truth about PC muscle control!
The Stop-Start Method and Squeeze Technique
Well, these were the first behavioral techniques developed for men to extend the delay before they ejaculated. And to some extent, they do work. The problem is that you need a helping hand — by which I mean you need somebody to talk you through it, and you need somebody alongside you after the training period is over to keep you motivated and on track.
Not perhaps literally alongside you in the bedroom, but certainly helping and advising you about how to maintain the results you achieve during the training program. Without a lot of motivation, and a high level of commitment from the man, the fact is that these programs tend to lose their effectiveness over time.
In Masters and Johnsons’ research study, after 12 months of practice, the failure rate was about 3%. (Which means three couples in every hundred were coming just as fast as before. Which means 97 had complete control of ejaculation.)
But in fact nothing like this success rate has ever really been achieved since. The reason seems to be that therapists can train people to control the delay in ejaculation very well using these techniques, but then, without support, the man stops using the techniques or loses motivation and gradually begins to ejaculate just as quickly as before. So without a lot of motivation and commitment, this isn’t going to work.
Diagnosis: Do it if you want to overcome premature ejaculation and you have high motivation to keep you going. Better, get the treatment program I recommend and never have to worry about coming too quickly again!